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Barbie Friggin’ Ruled!!!!

Barbie Friggin’ Ruled!!!!

I purposefully have avoided any reviews of Barbie. I had one friend text me and tell me that I HAD to take my 11-year-old daughter to see it and why she thought that, but other than that text, I let nothing on the interwebz color my opinion of what I was getting...

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Be Yourself!!! Aunt Baba Had the Right On!

Be Yourself!!! Aunt Baba Had the Right On!

I have learned so much about myself and how I choose to show up for others over the last 3 years since my separation and subsequent divorce. I am now engaged to a man who knows more about me, my real and authentic me, than anyone has ever known. For years,...

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Sexology Summit 2023

Sexology Summit 2023

Folks, when I say, I love my job, you gotta understand, it's the most honest thing I've ever uttered in my life. I got the opportunity to attend this summit where there were about 50 presenters from different edges of the sexuality world coming together....

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Why Do We Lie in Intimate Relationships?

Why Do We Lie in Intimate Relationships?

You've been in this situation before. Dinner is overcooked. The chicken is dry. The rice is a little crunchy. The broccoli probably should have been turned off a few minutes earlier. Whatever part of dinner that isn't quite right, your dad leans over to...

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